What to do about dating a married man
A recent dinner with a past acquaintance has brought me to a place where I now know a conversation on why-I-even-dressed-up-for-a-dinner-with-a-man-I-had-no-idea-was-married-until-we-were-well-into-dessert is very much needed.
I am a 40-something single woman interested in dating single, heterosexual men yet lately I seem to meet more than the usual of those who are Dating While Married (DWM).
She told him to stop seeing the other counselor and find another one who knows about me too.
He is having a very hard time to break it to his wife that he just wants out.
That’s why it’s so important to talk about the OTHER reasons why creating a relationship with someone married is bad news.
He doesn’t want to be confrontational and doesn’t want to hurt her.
He has been married to his wife now for 17 years and has 2 children. I know what I am doing with him is wrong, but I just can't seem to walk away from him.
I am ok as long as I see him - once I see him, all the insecurities disappear.
Since the beginning I have told him that he should he leave his wife and that he could not move in with me.
I also told him that he would need to be on his own for a little while before jumping into another marriage. However, lately it seems that my conscience has been adding a great deal of stress within the relationship.